Extreme obesity

I know some of the threads are on similar topics, but I'm after answers to this specifically. Thanks.

I know I'm stating the obvious, but the beauty of fantasy is that you can ignore the realty of it.

My fantasies of being in the state are very much just a fantasy for the reason you've mentioned.

I do.

That is for sure the pinnacle of my feeder girl fantasies. Immobility doesn't have to be reserved only for the fantasy realm, but I think that both parties have to be willing participants. Otherwise it is exploitative and does not result in a healthy relationship. Are there men out there that really, truly want to be so huge that they can't get out of bed and depend on their feeder to take care of them full time? There may be, but I haven't met any. It is one thing to think that is what you want, but quite another to actually live it. My husband at his heaviest was 525 lbs and that made life extremely difficult. Along with the health problems, there are a whole slew of other inconveniences that detract from your quality of life. If he was into it, we would have kept going until he was 700 lbs or more. I would love to do that. But the reality of it is that once it changes from a fantasy to an impending reality, I think most men end up changing their minds.

Even when my live-out partner needs help tying his shoes, it's hot. It only happens when he's overly full or achy from something, but still. Yum.

My dream would be to be that fat together. I know, rare, and difficult to manage in practice. But a girl can dream... *looks off wistfully*

It turns me on hugely ,but reality and fantasy are two different things.I would love to gain to that extent; BUT it would have to be when in a relationship with someone I loved and who loved me and who wanted me to be like that..in that situation I would really go for it..otherwise it remains a fantastic fantasy,but an impractical and unachievable one for me alone.I agree,it's good to know that there are some FFAs out there who would like that